Friday, March 25, 2005
Assalamualaikum
Just wanna say something.I think this problem is increasing.More and more cases cropped out of this.It is startying to worry me.Even though it doesn't concern me,it concern us malays.Have u noticed that there have been a lot of cases of sex among teenagers?The main thing is sex without getting married.The sad part is a lot of malays teenagers is doing it.And our religion teach us not to have sex before marriage.The sad part is some teenagers are proud of it instead of being ashamed.The thing is why are they doing it?Ok for my case,i am also a teenager i admit.I am also a human being like them.I admit i have the nafsu to sometimes do it.But why don't i do it?One reason is the punishment of Allah S.W.T.,second is i don't want to embaress my family's name and lastly i am not willing to be responsible to be a dad now.I want to be a dad.Yes insya-Allah .BUT I want to be a good dad.I want to have money to support my family and provide for them .Ok back to the problem is who is to blame?The blame lies to the parents,the girl and guy.The parent's fault is sometimes they give the teenagers too much freedom.But it's not their fault as u don't expect them to be on our toes 24/7.The guy's fault is they lose to nafsu.Yes they will enjoy having sex.But are u willing to hold responsible if the girl get pregnant.It's no simple task.U must be willing to hold tis heavy responsibility.A child's future is with u.And in yr teenagers years ,do u have enough money to support the girl and the child?I guess not rite.Do u want yr family to suffer with u?Do u see a cycle here. Girl + Boy = Child. Both parents work to meet ends meet no time for the child.The child mix up wrong company have a bf,have sex ,have a child.U see the cycle?
For the girl's fault,i don't see why u agree to have sex with the boy?U will be the suffering party.Some have sex coz of love,some kena physco ,some were begged so they give it.Do u know that virginity is the most impt thing a girl should have.U should protect it all yr life and lose it on yr wedding nite.I guess now it's not like tis.U can just give it to any Dick ,Tim or Harry.Why?Coz they are handsome ,cool etc etc.U know some of the boys who want u coz of sex but u still gave it to them.When some of the uncool guys or non handsome guys ,u ask them to take a hike.Pls don't consider looks girl pls look at the whole package.Example the sincerity ,respect and can they support u.I am referring to some girls not all.When u agree to do the dirty thing, would u see the big picture.There is a lot of ifs.Wat if the guy don't want to be responsible?or u get married but no money then wat?Anyway aren't u ashamed to get married with a big tummy?Aren't u ashamed or aren't u scared of God?God's punishment isvery harsh even myself am afraid of his punishment.And coz of the acts u two do,the child will be looked down on by others members of the family ,neighbours etc etc.Ok u take the easy way by throwing away the child or aborting it.Do u know it's a big sin to end a life?Wat if it is u?Wat would u feel.So people who read this ,i guess tis is a problem that we all need to solve.It's a serious topic.Pls if u want to do this dirty thing,pls think .If u still wanna do,it's up to u .
Of all evil @ :: 9:20 PM ::
